I used to love giving advice. Now I’m trying to give less of it.

This is not me and no I am not.

For years I told the story. Then I talked to my mom and realized I’d made it up.

and why do so many of us think that unwillingness to change is a good character trait?

while they cut me in line at the supermarket

What do we owe those from our past who pop up and drop one on us?

and how I feel guilty for not liking it and if I should always be rooting for everyone Asian

and his death, our reaction to it, and my feelings about those things

Hyun Kim 김현

Writer/Editor: Vibe, MTV, Tidal. Marketing/Advertising: Nike, Samsung, The Madbury Club. Former #1 Google image search for bald Asian. Seoul->Ithaca->NYC->VLC

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